Rewards

One of the first things you need to decide is what his prize will be for retrieving the ball. An effective way to reward your canine pal for his good behavior is to use training treats or kibbles of dog food. Start training with rewarding him each time, but slowly, as he starts to get the hang of things, do it less so he does not think that the point of this play is to get a treat. Once your dog learns the behavior, you can move to "lesser rewards" (such as praise and extra praise) instead of food.

At all stages of retrieval training, make sure to give him verbal praise to encourage the repeat behavior. When he returns the object, do not immediately reach for it, but rather praise him, pet him and possibly even give him a treat. As he learns to drop the object on his own in anticipation of you throwing it again, he's starting to understand what the game of fetch is all about. Don't praise him if he doesn't return the ball, otherwise you're not reinforcing the behavior that you want him to do.

Commands

If your dog is already familiar with basic commands, such as "sit" and "stay," you're off to a good start. Teaching a dog to fetch includes other commands, such as "drop it," which is particularly helpful if he likes to hold onto the ball in his mouth when he returns it to you. This can be a completely separate training session on its own.

At first you may have to barter with your dog by offering something like a treat in exchange for the ball, but overtime he should start to understand the drop command. This can come in handy if he ever decides to eat something that he shouldn't, so you don't have to reach into his mouth to pull it out.

Safety

Dogs playing fetch is as old as time, but it's also import to ensure that you keep him safe while playing. Make sure your dog is very well-trained or in an enclosed area to ensure that he will not run away. If you're playing at a dog park, make sure that there is not competition with other dogs that could result in a fight over the toy. Finally, always remember to throw the toy away from danger — never toward traffic or heavy areas of congestion. Avoid throwing it near water if your dog is not a strong swimmer, or has no interest in going into the water to fetch.

With patience and persistence, teaching a dog to fetch is a rewarding lesson for you and your pup. It's a great way to bond and the two of you can spend countless hours playing. But what if he just doesn't like playing fetch? There is still an abundance of other fun games you and your little guy can play together.

Who knows, maybe all this time he was just teaching you how to fetch and you didn't realize it.